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Why do I enjoy spanking and pain during sex?

The enjoyment of combining sex with elements of pain, commonly referred to as BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission, Sadism, Masochism), can be attributed to a complex interplay of psychological and physiological factors. From a psychological perspective, individuals who derive pleasure from BDSM activities may experience arousal and gratification from the power dynamics, sensation play, and exploration of boundaries within a consensual context. For some, the experience of pain can lead to an altered state of consciousness, often described as "subspace" or "topspace," characterized by feelings of euphoria, relaxation, or transcendence.

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