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Spank Dating is the number one choice for horny Brits looking for spanking and BDSM partners, adult chat and kinky fun. Find spanking partners quickly and discreetly with our secure online personals service. US visitors, click here to login/signup

Explore the world of sexual fetishes, kinky sex and online chat. Meet members nearby looking for spanking partners or find someone to spank you with our personalised search filters, saved lists and automated member recommendations.

Spanking contacts

Our vast database of members ensures we have members interested in most aspects of the fetish lifestyle including spanking. As the most searched for sexual interest, many would say it’s not even a real fetish as it so widely enjoyed by couples who would otherwise consider themselves to have a fairly ‘normal’ sex life. describes a fetish as:

"a sexual interest in an object or a part of the body other than the sexual organs"

Many people still find the subject of spanking and BDSM a difficult one to bring up with their partner, unsure how they will react to their request. Spank Dating makes finding spanking partners easy and discreet by connecting users by their sexual interests. If you like spanking, being spanked or have a desire to try spanking, you can find willing partners all over The UK with similar interests and levels of experience with our adult only spanking community.

Spank or be spanked

Are you the dominant one in the bedroom who loves to dish out a thrashing or a more submissive person longing for the thrill of a firm hand across your ass? With such a wide variety or members or all ages, backgrounds and kinky persuasions, connecting with your fantasy fetish partner could be only a few clicks away.

Our 100% free Spank Dating account is the ideal way to get an introduction into the world of BDSM, roleplay and the fet lifestyle. View spanking ads, create your own photo profile and view members in your area looking for kinky fun today.

A word on consent

As a dating site that caters for the more extreme spectrum of sexual activity, it’s all too easy to get carried away. Please bear in mind that many members might not be as experienced or open to extreme pain, domination or BDSM as you are. Our saved searches, suggestions and filters make it easier to find just the right partner for your needs but we always recommend that you take time to discuss your interests and thresholds before you meet or video call. As with sexual activity of any kind, consent is the key factor. Have fun, experiment and try new things but make sure both parties are happy and consent to your activities.

We expect all members to be polite and respectful within our community. Abusive messages will not be tolerated. You can use the block member feature to block any unwanted attention or you can report a user to our customer support team if you feel pressured or threatened by a user and they will take appropriate action. We do not conduct background checks on users, so caution is advised when meeting members for the first time. We recommend you take your time getting to know our members and maybe spend some time using our secure video calling facility before deciding whether you want to meet up in person.

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